One Year Ago Today: 01/24/2013 - Rough Day

(01/24/2013, Thursday)

Today was hell.

I'm not going to drag you all through the emotional cesspool that was our day--rather I'll just shift perspective a bit--Evie:

• Isn't paralyzed.
• Appears to have no lasting heart issues.
• Has no brain damage. (Probably unnecessarily tying things in here, but she's not a Ute fan or a Pittsburgh fan.)
• Is more like Cinderella than her stepsisters Drizella and Anastasia (she's kind, caring, and helpful.)
• In spite of everything, she still trusts me.
• More importantly, she still trusts her Heavenly Father.
• Has not given up.

So today was okay.


Evie:

• Is not on a feeding tube, and is not consuming nor retaining enough calories.
• Currently weighs 17.9 kilograms, or 39.5 lbs.
• Will endure her 3rd day in a row of dialysis from 0700-1100 Friday, with the current total of this streak being 2.2 Liters removed.
• Is not currently on oxygen, as the theory is that if we get her and keep her "dry enough" she won't need it.
• Is physically exhausted, and would sleep the majority of the day if left undisturbed.
• Has no appetite. (In spite of the appetite stimulant she's been receiving, which has a side-affect of potentially causing "night-terrors")
• Will have surgery tomorrow after dialysis (most likely around noon) for peritoneal dialysis access.

Things to Hope and/or Pray for

• That she regains her appetite, and her ability to keep her food down.
• That we'll adequately resolve the oxygenation/breathing issues.
• Better doctor/patient family relations/communication
• Penetration of the bureaucracy.

I realize that my first set of bullets may have concerned you, so please, let me clarify: I was trying to get myself in a more positive mindset. The first set of bullets are all things that are not an issue, nor have they been. Nothing traumatic brain/heart/nerve system happened... this was just my poorly written way of saying, "We'll, at least we don't have these problems."

Make sense? Sorry if I gave you undue cause for concern.

DISCLAIMER: Posts Labeled "One Year Ago Today" are a record of what transpired when Evie first became ill.  The slightly edited text comes from emails which we sent to family to let them know what was happening, and to keep them updated.  These posts are usually long, but if you want to truly understand what life was like for us, and what led to this point, it makes for great "light" reading.